Water-based vs silicone lube: which should you choose?

Lube is the unsung hero of the bedside drawer. It reduces friction, improves comfort and makes toys and condoms work better. The main question is which base to choose.

Water-based lube

The all-rounder, and the best place to start.

• Pros: safe with every toy material and with latex and non-latex condoms; washes off with water; won't stain sheets.
• Cons: absorbs into the skin over time, so you may need to reapply; not ideal in the shower.

Look for glycerin-free, pH-balanced formulas if you're prone to irritation — they're kinder to sensitive skin.

Silicone-based lube

• Pros: very long-lasting and silky; a little goes a long way; stays put in water.
• Cons: can degrade silicone toys, so it's best kept for glass, steel and ABS toys (or patch-test first); needs soap to wash off.

Silicone lube is safe with latex condoms, and it's a favourite for massage too.

Hybrid lube

Hybrids blend a water base with a small amount of silicone. They feel creamier and last longer than water-based lubes while still being easy to clean up. Most are fine with condoms; check the label before using with silicone toys.

Quick comparison

Type	Silicone toys	Condoms	Longevity	Clean-up
Water-based	Yes	Yes	Medium	Water
Silicone	Patch-test	Yes	Long	Soap & water
Hybrid	Check label	Usually	Long	Water

What about oils?

Oils are wonderful for massage but break down latex condoms, so keep them for massage only if you're using latex for protection.

Our tip

If you only buy one, choose a quality water-based lube in a pump bottle. Then add a silicone lube later for long sessions or bath-time.